I have tried to offer to pick him up and my son will call her to see if its ok for me to pick him up but she refuses. And the father shame on him for playing with your kids emotions. Can someone give me advice ? Now they are saying he could be charged. 2) She moved out of state without my permission and has left the country without my authorization as well. I feel the best place for the girls to grow and be loved is with my son. We brought the child back to his mother. If only all thought that way. so my husband is in jail now for interference with child custody were in TX. If you just lost your job you really should be able to keep your word and pick your child up. But I fear running afoul of Custodial Interference and where this may lead. My ex wife is very emotional and abusive. I have a 13 year old daughter with my ex we share legal custody in the state of Indiana but I have sole physical custody. I was good to my ex and i am a damn good father, I know this because I am. What are my chances of a positive outcome? In addition, for past 3 years.everytime she comes home shes in tears (countless recorded video/convo).he never wants to go back because hes mean to her. What should I do? If shes being vindictive that will not make her look good, but you have to follow the Law which would be a Court Order. I was an undiagnosed diabetic. If shes crazy, let the court know youd like mediation, there are safe haven drop offs to transfer kids to, look it up on the net. paid him thousands but could not keep up. He filed for divorce in Dec 2008, I responded explaining I contested but could not afford a lawyer at present. We had set up visitation of every other weekend. all the want is my money and cut me out. ALWAYS have a witness with you upon exchange of the children, prefered someone they are comfortable with (grandparent, friend or other family member) that can claim withness to the situation. The police are not able to do anything. Even if you plan on representing yourself, you may want to consider having a lawyer review your papers before you file them. He also has encouraged the girls to say contemptuous things against their mother. ***My ex and his wife have kept my 3 children from any contact with me, as well as his wife keeping her 2 children from their father PLEASE HELP US GET OUR CHILDREN BACK!!!!! Understand something when you have a disagreement and you have to go to court. Thanks In fact, when I asked about visitation at all, they called my crazy ex-wife again who then started shouting all these insane allegations against me and my new family. Ive tried to be compassionate with you, but your anger and personal vindictive agenda towards the childs other parent is blatant. She used to live in New Jersey and we were notified by the courts there she was trying to take my custody and I have no contact. I will be asking her if I can keep the children till tuesday morning where I will see them off to school. When I moved I tried to take the boys to a different school and was denied by an emergency hearing. I went to pick my kids up and he went behind my back and got a temporary custody order for our son and my daughter that is not his biological child back in 2008. lady after our son was born he stated adamantly that he did not want to be put on the birth certificate, because I do not want to be a dad yet, im serious *Bunny*, I am not ready to be a father. then I spent the next two weeks going up to the nicu every day for two weeks for eight hours each day because our son *Cash* was born two months early. Yet, the few moments O. Sr. and O. Jr. have interacted, they were both over joyed to see each other and there was nothing but love between them. I agreed to giving him physical placement with joint custody. Shes saying i can be charged with kidnapping. You may actually get custody, child support, tax deductions and best of all your child. Alto of drug charges on weed as well an no child saport from any of his kids. My sons dad, Branden, does not stay with his mother or my son, he stays with his sister. He has been pleading and begging with me since he got here to let him stay. When I showed up he hugged me and wouldnt let go..not even to hug his step siblings or dad goodbye. Now your legal action. Upon contact with the DFACS rep, he advised that my brothers rights were completely gone and said it would take more money than we could afford to get it over turned. I dont like sitting up all hours waiting, when i have things i need to. He is in reserves but was listed as active duty during his training and then lost the job and so now is on reserve status again. A judge may establish paternity if one parent files for paternity in court, or if both parents sign and filea voluntary acknowledgement form, which the father may have already signed when the child was born. We went to court for four years over and over again before she finally showed up. What should I do? An official website of the Commonwealth of Massachusetts, This page, Filing for child custody or parenting time in Massachusetts, is. You have something in PA that can work to your advantage far greater than just a court order. There is a 90% chance that can be overturned as long is there is no just cause to retain the order. Custodial Interference by Relative - Boston Crime Lawyer . If you do not return your child to his or her other parent at the right time or on the right day, then you could be held in contempt of court. I replied with a rude comment using not so nice language but it was nothing threatening and after that I stopped attempting to see my daughters. If there is an established Court Order for you to visit your child then your x may be in Contemp. And Legal Aide will not help us. The Order can be modified when both parties agree you both agreed on changing the Order and have followed those changes for quite some time and established precedence if you call police or say kidnapping that would be UNWISE. Even threatning to change their phone numbers. so that is not a problem anymore.. can i get her back. obviously she is more concerned with preventing your relationship with your son and causing you grief than anything else. Under child custody each state has signed that their state constitution will abide under UCCJEA in particular Section 201. I have known her since she was 17 and its been countless jail terms, 4 or 5 DUIs now, with 1 being with her children in the car. I asked my children where is their dad my son tells me his in the store. Davids family gave testimonies to the judge insisting I was a danger. BUT, focus on getting a job, not all of this. they disconnected their phone, and i cried day in and day out, called cops to do a welfare check and told them to bring me my kids since the father didnt want to take care of them and now that i am back in nm, they are an hr away. Is this a battle worthy of going to court? I dont know what to do right now. All rights reserved. Jesus will watch over us, but I have to do my part too and that is not involving my child and never giving up on him, ever. I pray that is true for your daughter and her father and you. What should I do? She still has not returned her. I am a custodial parent and due to the fact the noncustodial parent is on probation for 2years now for a possession charge, has had a job in 2years, has no car, and lives at a motel.also doesnt pay child support I have moved (not out of state) without giving him any information on our residence. If so he can never return. I had no had no reservations doing this at that time. My sister left like she did because thats the only time she was alone. also he has sent threatening letters by mail and threatened me over the phone, his family is crazy and they have no respect for me or my child,i am a good mother and have taken care of my child since day 1.what do you suggest and in alabama what are the factors that are considered when it comes down to visitation rights with the noncustodial parent? Thank you for letting me vent Moms Rights. I tried calling him he would not answer. Trust me if this is the worst he has done, I can guarantee it can get much uglier. Of course he is threatening with court and we are in the process of filing an emergency motion. Status quo is every other weekend and one day a week. all states have adopted the UCCJA (Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction Act) which considers the childs home the state in which the child has lived in for the past six months. My question is did this detecteve and the commissioner violate my daughter civil right by official misconduct? All this just so she would allow him to come. Now that we have been gone for almost a year, she decided to file charges on me for interference of visitation in the old state eight months later, when she would never come to see him and disappeared for months. What are my options? What and how should I handle the open complaint of interference of visitation in my old state? I have maintained my job (I am the sole source of support) through this all. He told me to sign my rights over and he wpould never bother me again He has been doing stuff like this to me for the past 4 or 5 years when he gained primary custodion. I called the police and expland the sit. Can the county police do anything? My chidrens father filed for joint custody as the custodial parent because he was keeping the children while i worked in another city for about 3 or 4 months. Also his current girlfriend has physically abused the kids and a police report has bin filled along with pictures of bruises . He told my daughter that now, shes not getting her daughter back at all! One of which is not biologically mine but I signed the b.c. The only contact we are allowed to have due to the restraining order is via email. In hundreds of cases I surveyedmost of the time the child ends up hating the custodial parent and then has deep psychological issues to deal with. Her ex has domestic violence on him from while holding the baby on her 1st birthday trying to hit her mother, she recorded it, high on heroine, driving with her baby! We followed agreement until last week when she wanted to change. Child custody: family law advocacy for low and moderate income litigants, 3rd ed., 2018, chapter 9. They are usually very reluctant to get involved. After 4 hours I was on my way home with my daughter for my weekend visitation with her. I just want to help my stepson before it is too late and he just follows in his mothers footsteps. She tells my children im not the mom that she is. Any help is appreciated on this..all I want is my babies back! This occured not once but 3 times! Please keep in mind, IF YOU GIVE UP THE FIGHT, YOU GIVE UP THE CHILDS WELFARE AS WELL! Thank you for your time, Chris. I actually am trying to help you calm down so you dont lose custody. Hes doing this in retaliation to the mother because she wants a divorce. Can I go withdraw my child from school once they register her for the year? Do me a favor with all of this, dont bate him nor violate his time with the child if it is his turn to take the child to school or the bus stop and I ask the same respect the other way around. I have informed my father I wish my son returned to me here in Massachusetts immediately, offered to supply the plane ticket, and he has thus refused. To me, 2 mos is too much all at once with a man they do not see. He goes to the after school program and takes my sons out on my days and then returns them. and will find results! responsible for dropping him off at the end of the visitation? Seeing you are moving much closer I would file for an immediate modification of visitation and child support. I share joint custody (week on week off with my exhusband). reported to the world that I was a stand up parent, better than most. WHICH IS THEIR JOB! Hubby has stated that although he is not trying to keep child from her mother, he will not allow the child to return this Summer until there is a response for exs actions. I work full time and she goes to community college. What if the child wants to stay where they are by their own choice and has been given permission by the custodial parent to stay where they are (and has proof via a text message/email)?